Defending Homosexuality From ALL Forms of Homophobia

I have to admit that I’m becoming very frustrated as the sheer number of people who come to argue with me on my various social media outlets over homosexuality. A few years ago I would receive random private messages after commenting disfavorably on anti-gay Facebook pages, which I did here and there, and deal with the vitriolic homophobia most often under the guise of Christianity. This is, of course , not to imply that all Christians are homophobic, or even that all of their concerns about homosexuality are rooted in bigotry. I mean…have you actually read the Bible? Christianity is, like most if not all mainstream religions very steeped in patriarchal thinking and design. Of course they overflow with misogyny and homophobia, this is practically a given about most holy text, however, we do have freedom of religion here and it’s important that be respected in a sensible regard.  But no, the responses that I would received both publicly and in private were generally ill mannered and absolutely disgusting. Not all Christians are like this, but, at it’s heart, Christianity does advance patriarchal ideas and homophobia is a part of that. The same can be said of queer theory and transgenderism, and much like those many Christians, Several trans activist express homophobia and misogyny blatantly.

The homophobia that permeates in queer circles is uniquely different in it’s tactics , and yet fundamentally the same in the sense of the implication that there is something wrong with homosexuals for not adhering to gender identity when considering potential romantic partners, for which examples can be seen all over this blog. Time and time I again I hear from the trans community that , homosexuality, at it’s core, is a form of bigotry because it excludes people. Lesbians are excluding trans women (who are biologically male.) and gay men are excluding Trans men (who are biologically female.). Paying attention to sex is “hurtful” and just “shouldn’t matter” because to these people, we are living in a time that you can close your eyes and try hard enough, you can “identify” into all sorts of things, and somehow that magically will just make it so. And as such trans men are men, trans women are women, in a blink of an eye it can be done. Forgive us homosexuals if we reject this premise. I understand that men who claim to be homosexual may be having sex with trans men, but “claim” would be the key word here. Gay men, sorry, you can’t go around having sexual intercourse with female bodied people and still claim that you are a homosexual. My whole point here is that words have meanings, and it’s not useful to gay people or lesbians to blur the line and call heterosexuality something it isn’t.


It’s not helpful to lesbians to say that lesbians desire and DO  have sex with men:

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What this line of thought does is erases the reality of homosexual men and women who have either by choice, fate, or any factor, partner exclusively with members of the same sex. Our life journey means something, the homosexual experience means something. We have always faced heterosexuals telling us that we have to be heterosexual, that lesbians should just “Try to find the right guy” or for gay men, “meet the right girl”. Queer people posit we can and should do this if said member of the opposite sex does that magic trick I talked about up above and just perceive themselves as a member of same sex.- and we are back at square one, heterosexual people labeling homosexuals derogatory words for simply being gay.

People can love and sleep with whomever they choose to, As I’m writing this I can see it being misinterpreted as saying  “you can’t sleep with ______ because you’re trans.” That’s not what is being said. What is being said that the word “homosexual” means something. It means something to be gay or to be lesbian. Identifying as a homosexual is offensive when we both know there are other words that actually describe you. Bi, Pan, Queer, all of these effectively describe what you’re doing, just like homosexual/ homosexuality describes who we are and what we are doing.

Homophobia hits at gay people from many angles, and we, as homosexuals have a right to draw lines in the sand and we have a right to say “No” to any theory that is harmful to us, or dismissive of who we are. Both of Christian philosophy and queer theory support the erasure of gays and lesbians. We must realize though, that this time, it’s people who claim to be us.




Aby Miau Insist gay people have an obligation to be straight. TW: violent images

Aby Miau is another homophobic trans activist telling homosexuals that we have to consider Trans MTF or FMT as potential partners. That we are indeed even obligated to:

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They are also sending homophobic people to shut us down. people who use words like “gaytriarchy”
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Also doesn’t know what lesbian means:
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Looking at this person’s profile pictures, they engage in some form of self mutilation and are obviously not healthy. These are the people fighting in favor of this homophobic and misogynist narrative:

Aby Miau:

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*Edit* to include the faux outrage of their homophobic peers:
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Liam “Natalia” Verne wants to kill you.

Liam “Natalia” Verne, a male who identifies as a trans woman, has some history in attempting to censor people he disagrees with, as he was responsible for a starting a petition to silence females and lesbians by shutting down @GIDWatch :

Yesterday Natalia decided to stop by the “Homosexuals not Homogenderuals” Facebook page to give us a piece of his violent and abusive mind. Demanding we delete our page and even our life (which seems to be saying “you should kill yourself”.) and calls us violent without seeing the Irony of his abusive comment.


We responded simply by outing the abuse and posting a screenshot of what Liam had sent us along with some pictures we will share here. Which triggered a violent FB status update in which Delusional Liam states that he is going to “kill every TERF”.



He had many of his friends come and report the page and let us know that we will be taken down (more censorship of gender critical thought from gay people.) and also exposed them for the kind of people they are, which is unsurprisingly misogynist:

So, again…who can blame women for not wanting these men on their spaces? With this kind of rhetoric being all too common from the trans activist crowd.

Liam Verne:

He grows his hair longer and puts on lipstick and now he is a “woman”.

No Liam, we see who you are. You out yourself.

Now is talking about glitter bombing Shelia Jeffereys

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Burning Bridges

My name is Justin, and I’m a transphobe. Now, one may ask, why ever would you be one of those? isn’t this group of people stigmatized and marginalized far too much as is? Don’t they face horrible conditions and increased risk for violence and harassment? Do you contribute to this?

I have this blog which is a gender critical piece of cyberspace. I run HomoSEXuals Not HomoGENDERuals on Facebook and I was recently doxxed and identified as a contributor or “member” of Gender Identity Watch. And no, I don’t consider any of my work around this issue to contribute to any of the above questions. Questioning the validity of gender as an innate feeling and thus a physical reality doesn’t make one a Transphobe. But apparently it does according to the Trans crowd, and if so, fine, hand me that moniker. I no longer care if I’m smeared by that word or not.

Never mind the several things I support in favor of trans people.Nevermind that I always speak out against violence directed toward Trans individuals. Never mind that I support ending housing and employment(with employment it’s at a “in most cases” category. As we have seen recently with the Lily Cade debacle*, Lesbian porn is an area trans women need to get their dicks out of.) discrimination, or that I support insurance agencies that cover trans needs such as SRS and HRT. None of this apparently means anything. What it comes down to is that I won’t tell a trans woman that they are female, and I won’t tell a trans man that they are male.

Women and gay men are told that our experiences are invalid and not as awful as what Trans people face and in the same sentence say that Trans inclusion would be a big win for homosexual people. Homosexual people whom they are more than willing to erase and make out to be bigots for actually being homosexuals.
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If you can’t see how this may be even somewhat of a problem for gay people I seriously question your so called ally ship to homosexual people. By supporting this you are not supporting lesbians and you are not supporting gay men. You are supporting heterosexuals with gender id issues forcing their way into gay spaces and history, while erasing our struggles. This isn’t support.

So, Hi, I’m a cissexist transphobe (by your standards). But let’s not forget what you are. Which is the same old homophobia and misogyny, this time presenting it’s self in the form of men in dresses and lipstick. Check yourselves.  You are making this Gay Vs. Trans with your off the wall demands and expectations. Everyday I see new people waking up and smelling the stench of what you’re peddling. These people are angry as they should be. You’re losing friends, not making them.

GLAAD is practically been taken over by trans women as has most of the mainstream gay movement. But don’t worry, the gay counter culture is still here despite the mainstreaming and trans washing of it, and it will prevail. Don’t start things you don’t want to carry through. Attacking lesbians and gay men isn’t something you want to do. The world is actually on our side when it comes down to it. Most people in the world understand that men are males and women are females. You may have duped Tumblr and a few brain dead progressives, but that’s nothing to brag about.

* On Lily Cade:

We Know Who You Are

There is something very intimidating about that sentence isn’t there? “we know who you are.”  If what has been happening to the members of Gender Identity Watch in the last few weeks could be summed up  it would be in that sentence.  Speaking from my own personal experience this isn’t fun, it leads to a sense of anxiety. I’m still worried that my current information may be released and what ramification that may have on myself and loved ones and can only be so thankful that so far I’m in the clear, for now anyway.
Yesterday I found out that something of an “Exposé” had been published online and , with the help of Sophia Daryl Banks (See last few entries) tweeted out this his 9000 twitter followers in hopes of inciting abuse and harassment against the people listed in the document. Of course, Banks, being the utter coward that he is also deleted the tweet which can be seen here:

I speculate that Twitter user with the handle Anon_redteam (previously thought to be Dana lane Taylor, who is, if anything certainly working with this person.) who has been harassing me for weeks is actually the person behind this. That person actually appears to be someone using the name  Kelsie Darko (A trans woman who claims to be intersex).


The information that Kelsie released, while mostly false about the people who are involved,  also contained numerous innocent women who have nothing to do with GIW. So while the trans lobby may act like this is a big win for them, this is exactly the kind of thing that proves our collective point. Trans women activist are the MRA. And just like the typical MRA who doesn’t agree with a woman, they go to extreme means to harass and out women who disagree with them.
Also, can I just point out that comparing women who know that trans-women are male to Hitler is a very offensive analogy? This isn’t surprising as Trans activist will walk on and over whoever else to advance their agenda that they are the most special snow flake ever who is the most oppressed of them all.
So….at the end of the day, I guess we know who each other are don’t we? I look forward to and hope for legal action to be brought against the responsible parties. While I have limited means I will work in whatever way I can to help those out to decide on this route, even if that just means my vocal support.  Take care.